I have covered this topic before; however, I have found that
some people need this explained more than once to fully understand it. It can
be a little confusing.
I have been helping my friend, E.B. with her DNA results. She
had her mother, L.S. (her only living parent) tested. This is the first time I
ever got to work with DNA results that show a parent’s matches with the extra
built in label of “Mother’s side”. I had already started to color code E.B.
shared matches before her mother’s results came in. We are trying to figure out
who E.B.'s father’s biological father is. Therefore it was really nice to see “Mother’s
Side” was being matched up with those I sorted as being from her mother’s side.
However, I do know I saw a few matches that appeared to fall into both her
mother’s side and her father’s side.
Before I go any further, let me cover a little background
for those who are newer with DNA and sorting and matching. I have found with
AncestryDNA matches, using the Dana Leed’s Method of sorting is quite useful.
You can find it explained by her at her website
How shared matches work. When you go into your DNA Matches
(let’s call you A) and you select one of your DNA matches (let’s call them B).
You can then review all your shared matches (let’s call them C-Z). These are
DNA matches that match both A and B. Normal logic states, that if A and B have
a known common ancestor or ancestors (married couple), then shared matches C-Z
should match either the known common ancestor(s) or one of their ancestors. Look
at the chart below, see you are A and your selected match B have a common set
of ancestors. C-Z might share a common ancestor(s) at the same level as A and B
or any ancestor further back on those lines. This is how the Leed’s Method
works.
Keep in mind, all DNA 2nd cousins or closer will
match each other. Therefore, if you have two unknown DNA 2nd cousins
and they don’t match each other; they come from different lines of your tree.
You have four sets of Great Grandparents and these two 2nd cousins
come for two different sets of Great Grandparents.
Also keep in mind, that AncestryDNA use of 1st
cousin, 2nd cousin, etc.… are just for sorting purposes and is based
on your shared centimorgans. There are averages of centimorgans that relatives
will share based on their relationship. However, DNA is so random that the
further you go out, these could be higher or lower than average. Therefore, you
might find a 2nd Cousin listed under your 3rd cousin
heading in AncestryDNA. This is just a suggestion. Plus, not all your DNA
matches will be exactly a 2nd cousin, 3rd cousin, etc…
Some might be a 2nd cousin once removed or a 3rd cousin
twice removed. Basically to be exactly a 2nd cousin or 3rd
cousin as an example, your common ancestor must be the same relationship to
both of you. 2nd cousins share Great Grandparents, while 3rd
cousins share Great Great grandparents. Removed can be confusing, however,
think of your first cousin’s kids. These are your 1st cousin once
removed because your grandparents are your first cousin’s kids great
grandparents. Your common ancestors do not have the same relationship to you as
your first cousin’s kids.
The chart below show a simple Pedigree chart with ahnetafel
numbering system, this system starts with the main person, usually you as 1 and
your father is twice your number and your mother is twice plus one. This
continues in this fashion for as many generations you need to go back. So when
I am helping people with their DNA results and when I figure out the most
likely common ancestor, I like to use the ahnetafel numbering system so I can
see their placement on the pedigree chart easier. The top of the chart shows
the relationship of each generation to you and the bottom of the chart shows
which generation would be 2nd cousins versus 3rd cousins.
Okay, now back to my research problem. My friend as a DNA
match (J.S.) showing up in her 2nd Cousin bucket and is related to
her and her mother. However when I bring up J.S.’s shared matches, she has two
shared matches that are from my friend, E.B.’s father’s side. These shared
matches do not show up for E.B’s mother, L.S..
Also, J.S. really isn’t a 2nd cousin to E.B., in
fact, J.S. is the great granddaughter of L.S.’s sister. Therefore, J.S. is the
1st cousin twice removed of E.B. and the great great niece to L.S.
Their common ancestor is E.B’s maternal grandparents (6 & 7). Lucky for me,
J.S. matches A.B. and A.B.’s mother C.B. two matches that I already figured who
their common ancestor to E.B. Plus A.B. has a very nice developed tree, while
J.S., not so much.
When I first looked at J.S.’s tree, I did some quick
research on the only names she had on her tree and when I found obituaries for
J.S.’s grandparents, this is where I was given J.S.’s parents name. J.S.
used her real name and I found the S surname already in the tree for E.B. since
S married L.S.’s sister’s daughter. J.S’s father is the grandson of L.S.’s sister. Therefore, I was able to place J.S. into E.B.’s
tree.
Next I turned to figuring out how J.S. was
related to A.B. and C.B. The locations for J.S. maternal grandparents did not
match A.B’s tree. So I turned to J.S.'s paternal grandfather (S). I did some quick
research and found that S’s father had married a Pauly and her parents were
listed in A.B’s tree. Also, Ancestry has common surname between E.B. and A.B.
listed in green. Ironically, a Pauly married a Friedel (the surname from E.B.’s
tree). Therefore, I might come across more DNA shared matches that show they
have maternal and paternal matches to E.B. and this will be the first place to
start looking.